Category: News and Views
What in the Hell is wrong with people? Now having me teach any lessons in social skills is like having Paris HIlton teach a class in chastity or modesty, but alas I have enough skill to avoid folks I don't like, like I don't like a certain someone's fiance, so I'm not attending the wedding. Why is it so hard for someone to admit, if that's the case, they don't like kids and thus won't date parents?
A little girl, 10, in North Carolina has gone from missing person to homicide. Sperm donor & step egg donor reported her missing last weekend, but neighbors questioned haven't seen her in months. Cadaver dogs have picked up the scent of human remains in both sperm donor & step egg donor's cars. Relatives reported the child,Zahra Clare Baker, would get upset when it was time to go home & was bruised and confined to her room for extended periods, allowed out only to eat. What makes this particularly heartbreaking is she was an amputee (left leg) from bone cancer and evidently lost most of her hearing I guess from radiation therapy.
What kind of stupid mother fucker beats up on a child who has been that sick & is totally not able to fend for themselves? I used to talk to someone (now long deceased) after she went for radiation therapy, & she sounded totally drained & needed when I was on the phone to disconnect & rest. What kind of asshole sperm donor allows a wife to beat up on his handicapped child? Is he pussy whipped? Being weak & dominated by a woman will get a man laughed at where I lived for many years, & even prim proper Catholic ladies from New England use that term there to describe such a man. The Sherriff in Hickory was practically crying when he announced the child's change in status, but still wants anyone with any information to assist. No remains have been found.
The child sounded low maintenance. One neighbor was quoted, "All she wanted was a mom, and she got THAT." What in the fuck is wrong with relatives that they couldn't call the police on this fat, tattooed piece of shit who was abusing someone who had been through so much pain already? Anyone ever heard of petitioning the courts so the child could stay with them instead? I had a classmate the same age in the '70's who lost a leg to bone cancer. Sometimes he wore his prosthetic limb, others not, he walked on crutches. The idea of abusing a child who has been through this makes me want to fly down to North Carolina & put both individuals on the 2000 volt fryolator myself. Oh, Hell, even better, why not just release 'em with the general inmate population, no censoring of newspapers or monitoring of the inmates' tv viewing, no solitary confinement, NO PROTECTION WHATSOEVER, and see how long they live?
Yes, this is tragic, to say the least. What's even better, this girl's sperm donor, as you call him, met his wife on the Internet and married her without really knowing her. He even admits his wife likely had a part in the child's demise. What kind of a fuckhead do you have to be to marry someone like that?
Hmm sounds like the fucktard in Ohio who married the asshole in Galveston that she met online and the two of 'em beat her toddler daughter to death for not saying stuff like "Thank you" and pitched her into Galveston bay like she was just garbage. They are now making new "friends" in Texas prisons.
I will do more research on North Carolina case, but anyone know what happened to the natural mother? Death? Abandonned the family?
Wow, just wow! Renders a bit of credence to the 'evil stepmother' tradition ... but still, hope they both catch their limit from the law.
And speaking of the law, I saw a documentary about 15 years ago portraying law enforcement people who worked on these types of cases all their lives and ended up themselves all messed up in old age with no peace, basically victimized by the casualties of war on crime. Hope maybe we can apply some of the same help being worked out for vets returning from Iraq to these men and women in law enforcement, as sounds like they'll need it. Crazy.
All I've heard in the news about this girl's biological mother is that she lives outside of the country. So from that, I'd say she's still alive. I'd chance a guess that she abandoned the guy and daughter, but I really don't know.
OK, did a little more digging, and the girl's egg donor abandonned her at birth. This child never knew what it was like to have a mother, and apparently that's all she wanted to complete her life, and she got this piece of shit. Also sperm donor didn't participate, but he apparently watched step bitch beat his daughter & blacken her eyes. Bio family and late child were from Australia.
Oddly enough I know a man from another Anglophone country, South Africa, whose in a similar situation. I met him only once last year, one of those people you wish you could see again but don't get the opportunity. His daughter is now 3 years old & egg donor abandonned ship. The one time I talked to this man his elderly mother in law was helping him full time with his daughter. I hope he doesn't get into a similar situation looking for a wife.
Incidents like this are why if Mr Sponge and I didn't stay together, I wouldn't seek to remarry. It's ok to have friendships & date & get your child a sitter, or wait until they're visiting their other parent, & not involve the child in the relationships, but it is a big risk to take introducing the child & making that person a part of the household. Best case scenario...relationships sour and child's sense of attachment is constantly tested. Worse case scenario...abuse & homicide.
it's a sad fact that in the majority of cases where a child goes missing someone who knew the child was involved.
You can't reason it out though - most rational humans just can't grasp what it is that makes someone do this to their own child, or one that is close to them.
A prosthetic leg has been found at an address stepbitch previously lived. No identification has been made yet, I believe there is something on medical devices like an identification number to place it with the recipient.
You know I've known of men whose wives died & left them with daughters, and for understandable reasons they wanted an adult woman in the house to be a part of their daughters' upbringing. But cases like this and like that of a man serving time in the Illinois State Penetantiary for rape are a good warning against dating while a parent. The man serving time in Illinois witnessed his sister being beaten to death by their 300 lb stepbitch (sister was maybe 6) while he was a child. Stepbitch, a Scottish native, was caught by police in Texas before she could cross the Oklahoma line & possibly flee the country. Dad in homicide in NC has been charged with unrelated crimes, like assault & battery, so chances are he's no winner either. I just wouldn't chance dating if Mr Sponge & I split up.